As long as we both I show up with (the checked off) marriage license & our temple recommends....everything else is just a detail.
Details that yes, could go wrong...
...but isn't that what creates the funny experiences that hopefully we
(and all of youtube viewers) get to watch and remember???
That and remembering that even though there may be considerable and ongoing To Do Lists...I can change my thinking about those Lists and like someone once told me, those To Do Lists can become my Ta-DAH Lists.